November 7, 2009
92-year-old still cares for her handicapped daughter
Marjorie Lattimer, 92, kisses her daughter, Shirley,72, on the forehead. Shirley was born with PKU, a genetic birth disorder, which can cause problems with the central nervous system. By Sarah Moore
Marjorie Lattimer's life as a single mother, raising two handicapped children
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By Sarah Moore & Jon Offredo

For the Sunday Gazette-Mail

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SPENCER, W.Va. -- Marjorie Lattimer leans on her metal cane outside her daughter's house. The storm door opens slowly and a high-pitched yelp pierces the air. Lattimer enters the house as quickly as her recently broken hip will allow.

"Mommy's fixing it. Mommy's fixing it," she croons to her daughter as she unpacks snacks.

Marjorie is 92. Her daughter, Shirley, is 74.

Shirley's wispy white hair gleams in the sunlight as she rests cross-legged in a medical chair placed in front of the television. She rocks back and forth, waiting for her mother to sit beside her.

Lattimer's two children were born with phenylketonuria, or PKU, a genetic birth disorder that stunts the development of the central nervous system. PKU left her children unable to care for themselves and perform basic tasks.  Her son, Roger, was able to feed and dress himself, but Shirley cannot. 

Dr. Marybeth Hummel, professor of pediatrics at West Virginia University's Health Sciences Center, said patients with untreated PKU, like Shirley, are uncommon these days thanks to remedies at birth. Each year there is maybe one child born with PKU in the state, she said. With proper care and diet, those born with PKU can live a normal life.

"The fact that she has done so well is because she has been taken care of and followed up on," Hummel said.

Five weeks before Lattimer gave birth to Roger, her husband walked out of their lives. For the almost six decades since then, Lattimer has been alone in her fight for her children and their rights. Roger died two years ago at 59.

Throughout her life, Lattimer's kids have kept her on her toes. She figures God has kept her alive thus far, so she can see her children are cared for.

"Shirley is getting to the age where the good Lord will take her pretty soon, I imagine, and I hope so," she said. "I hope so, before I die. I've always prayed that he'd take both of them before he took me."

'I thought I was going to die'

Lattimer married at 17. At 18, she was pregnant with Shirley. She, her husband and the doctors thought the baby would be healthy and normal. At that time, PKU was unknown.

After the baby was born, the doctors knew something was wrong.

Hummel said about one in 20,000 babies are born each year with PKU in West Virginia. In the United States, only about one in every 10,000 to 15,000 babies is afflicted with PKU. Thanks to modern treatment, severe effects are rare.

"All of the doctors we took them to didn't know a thing about it," Lattimer recalled.

Almost 14 years after Shirley was born, Lattimer became pregnant again, with Roger. She was excited to have a baby boy. But after his birth, the doctors told her there was a problem. She had given birth to a second child with the disease.

"I thought I was going to die," Lattimer said. "I was sitting in a chair holding him, and after I went to the doctor and he told me something would be wrong with him I was so upset. And there was a voice [that] come over my head and said you'll be taken care of -- and I have been."

After Roger's birth, Lattimer found herself unable to care for two children with profound needs. She sent Shirley to the state hospital in Huntington. It was one of the hardest decisions she's ever made.

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Posted By: DragonLady (8:38am 11-09-2009)
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Wow, I'm in tears! What an incredible lady!

Posted By: alima zimmer (8:32am 11-09-2009)
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GOD HAS TRULY BLESSED THIS WOMAN. GOD WILL INDEED CONTINUE TO BLESS HER WITH HER LOVING DEVOTION TO HER DAUGHTER.

Posted By: robertt (7:41am 11-09-2009)
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This is one of the most amazing stories of love and human compassion of our time. The love demonstrated by Marjorie Lattimer is a story within itself, it shows that in this age of disconnection, that real people possesing the strength of enduring committed inward tenderness can find that secret hurt, and the pain itself will crack crack the rock and let the beauty of the soul emerge. In the spaces between our life's emergence and our departure, the real truth of our strength is about overcoming what we do not understand, and how we can accept it. Here, in this story of authentic human love, we find that............

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