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November 10, 2008
Innerviews: Grandfather's notes grow into gritty memoir
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David McElwain wanted to leave something of himself to his grandchildren, a record of the way he lived way back when. He started years ago, just pecking out notes on an old manual typewriter. The notes have evolved into a meticulously crafted memoir that describes everything from trips to the outhouse on frigid mornings to the operation of a push lawn mower.

A longtime agriculture teacher and vocational director in Braxton County, he wrote extensively about the polio that struck him at age 6 and how he overcame the limitations of his withered leg. He wrote about his years at WVU, how he worked his way through school on a pittance.

Still adding to the chronicle at 83, the past pours from his productive mind like milk from a cow's udder. (He wrote about milking cows, of course). He hopes his grandchildren will learn from his memories. Maybe the grit and resourcefulness that got him through life will inspire them.

"I was born March 7, 1925, on a little dairy farm outside of Sutton. My parents decided they were too young to mess with children, so they handed me over to my grandparents. This was right before the Depression. We didn't have much money, but we had plenty to eat because we raised it. We milked eight to 10 cows and we would butcher five or six a year and five or six steers.

"The only heat we had was an open grate. We burned coal and wood. I remember going with my uncle up through Sutton and hauling coal with a team of horses. It took us almost all day to make a trip up there for one load of coal.

"In the summer, sometimes the well would go dry. My grandmother would take clothes to the river with a couple of washtubs and build a fire under one of them. While she washed clothes, I would play in the river, so I learned to swim at a very early age.

"When we got running water, my first shower was in the basement with a cold water hose stuck in a coffee can that I had punched holes in with a nail and hung from the ceiling.

"Our house was built of poplar. The floor was wide boards with a crack between them. We didn't have a basement. The parlor floor had a rug on it, but when the wind would blow, that rug would raise up from the wind going under the house.

"I had no contact with my father, and very little with my mother. It bothered me a lot. That's one part of my life I don't dwell on.

"When I was 6, I had polio. I had just started to school. Coming home one evening, I fell. A couple of days after that, I couldn't stand up on my leg. The next day, I couldn't walk. The doctor immediately told her it was infantile paralysis, which is what they called it at that time. I didn't go to school that year. They made a brace for my leg that went clear up around my waist. I was in the hospital maybe two months.

"They closed the school and disinfected it. They burnt sulfur to fumigate the classroom. The doctor placed a quarantine on our house. My uncle lived up the road and dad took all the milk supplies up there and didn't come back until the quarantine was lifted. My grandmother said they lost a lot of customers because people were afraid. The next fall, I started first grade again. I had a brace and walked on crutches about a mile and a half to the grade school.

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Posted By: bartender (5:10pm 11-10-2008)
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Aren't grandparents wonderful? I hope that the children cherish this memoir and pass it through the generations.

Posted By: Oldbroad (9:42am 11-10-2008)
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Very inspiring story. My husband started working at age 11. Every young kid in school today should be made to read this story. They are so spoiled it makes me wonder what our future will be like.

Posted By: kaync (5:49am 11-10-2008)
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What an inspiring story. Adversity either makes you stronger or weaker...and you get to choose.

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